Are you ready to start planning for amazing wedding day hair? There are so many tips to help prepare your hair for your wedding. And for good reason, because we all want flawless hair when we get married, right?
Some people just have amazing hair. They really do. It’s thick and beautiful, and low maintenance. And, some of us have to work a bit harder at it. We may need to be diligent with our haircuts, or colors, or we have to be really intentional with our style. Either way, knowing what’s possible, and what to watch out for, helps.
Wedding day hair may seem insignificant, but I promise you that you do not want to have a bad hair day on your wedding day. It’s the day you should feel your most beautiful. And, you’ll want to look back and know that your hair was the most perfect it could be for you. The great news is, you can plan ahead to make this happen.
Planning For Amazing Wedding Day Hair?
When it comes to our weddings, it helps to have a plan to ensure our wedding day hair is the most fabulous it can be. And, it helps to have a little guidance on making big wedding day hair decisions. You may be wondering how to style their hair. Or, how long before the wedding you should get a cut and color. This post is going to help with those answers, and more.
Here we go!
WORK IN ADVANCE WITH A STYLIST TO PLAN FOR YOUR WEDDING DAY HAIR
One of the best ways to prepare for your wedding day hair is to work with a hair stylist, early on.
This professional could be your regular hair stylist, or someone who you’ve hired to glam you up on your wedding day. Either way, they should be someone you’re comfortable with. And, they should be able to help recommend what will work for your hair. There’s more on that below.
HAVE A WEDDING DAY HAIR TRIAL
As I’ve written about in this post on 20 wedding hair and makeup trial tips, it’s a best practice styles ahead of your wedding.
Ideally, this trial would take place about three months before your wedding day. Depending on how the trial goes, you may even have more than one. The main goal with the trial is to give yourself a preview of what you will look like on your wedding day. Plus, it gives you a chance to get to know the person doing your hair, and you’ll be able to strategize with them about your wedding day hair plan.
SCHEDULE YOUR SERVICES WITH YOUR WEDDING IN MIND
Working with a stylist on your wedding day hair plan is ideal, but not always possible.
If you’re wondering about your ongoing hair services (cuts, colors, etc.), and how far in advance you should have them, you’re not alone. While it’s best to consult a professional, there are some general guidelines you can follow. Of course, adjust the timing if you know it just won’t work for your hair.
According to this article from Byrdie, here is when you should have your hair services if you’re engaged:
- Get a trim about four to six weeks before your wedding.
- Have all professional straitening or curling done a month before the wedding.
- Routine colors should be about two weeks before.
PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR COLOR, EARLY
The great thing about hair color is that it can transform your look. The bad thing is that the timing is critical to getting the best color for your wedding day.
This is why it’s important to plan for your color early on. The color of your hair should be at it’s best on your wedding day, and if you’re changing it ahead of your wedding, you may need time to transition. So, if you are going from dark to light hair, or vice versa, form a plan with a professional. Speak to them about what’s best for your hair, and how to make your vision happen.
A hair stylist should be able to discuss the timing of color transitions, when to color so your hair looks the best, and if a change may be good for you.
CONSIDER A DEEP CONDITIONER
One question to ask your hair stylist is if you should have a deep conditioning before your wedding.
If so, they can help you pick out a conditioner that will be best for your hair. They may also show you how it works, and give you a plan to try it out ahead of the wedding. Ideally, you’ll use a conditioner that is meant for your kind of hair, whether it’s fine, thick, or damaged. Remember, conditioners can reduce hair colors, so the timing needs to be right if you’re also dying your hair.
THINK ABOUT A PRE-WEDDING BLOW OUT
A hair blow out is a professional hair drying that allows your hair to look sleek and soft, without the use of straighteners or irons.
This tip came from a Sweetly Pinned article, and it’s kind of a fun one. A blow out can feel great, and make your hair look amazing. Sweetly Pinned recommends that you get one a couple days ahead of your wedding. This could allow your hair to look amazing at your rehearsal dinner. Also, it will make you feel fabulous, which is always appreciated before you get married.
ASK YOUR WEDDING DAY HAIR STYLIST ABOUT SHAMPOOING BEFORE THE WEDDING
Everyone is different when it comes to cleaning their hair. Some people wash their hair every day, and others much less often.
For your wedding day hair plan, ask your stylist about when you should wash yours. The answer may depend on how your hair does when it’s not washed, and how greasy it may get. It can also depend on how thick and curly your hair is.
Remember, if you’re trying to control how dry or oily your hair is, you can find products to help. A hair oil can always add some shine to hair. And, dry shampoo can soak it back up. Working with your stylist for the right timing and products will ensure a perfect balance on your wedding day.
WEDDING DAY HAIR STYLE
Alright, so we have a plan to treat your hair before your wedding, but what about your style?
Remember, the goal is that you’re comfortable with your look. This means that it feels like you, and that it makes sense for your wedding. You could have the most aesthetically pleasing wedding day hair, but if you’re uncomfortable, it won’t be right.
PLAN ON TWO WEDDING DAY HAIR STYLES, IF YOU WANT
Alright, so you know what styles you like. And the accessories. But, you can’t choose.
If this is you, have a plan for two wedding day hair styles. It’s not that difficult to go from having your hair down to putting it up. And, if you have a hair stylist or skilled wedding party member on standby, you can get a look that is executed beautifully. Just know that it’s okay to mix it up. Many people switch their wedding dresses on their wedding day, why not do the same for your hair?
MATCH YOUR WEDDING DAY HAIR STYLE TO YOUR LOCATION
A lot of people with long hair struggle with the options for their wedding day style.
Obviously, the big options are to have your hair up, down, or some sort of combination. There are also many other choices, such as buns, braids, curls, and the list goes on. If you’re struggling, think about your wedding location.
Are you likely to experience wind? If so, you may want to have your hair out of your face. Is your wedding at the beach? Waves could be fitting. If your climate is humid, curls may help you be proactive. I think you get the picture. Look for potential risks with your wedding’s climate, and plan accordingly.
WEIGH DOWN YOUR VEIL
Veils are an amazing wedding day hair accessory, but they can also be a big pain.
If you’re getting married outside, in a location that tends to be windy, look into veil weights. These are tiny little weights that attach to your veil, and keep it in check during your wedding. Veils, especially long ones, can be really problematic in the wind, and you don’t want to be fighting with yours.
TAKE WEDDING DAY HAIR ACCESSORIES FOR A TEST DRIVE
Whether you’re wearing a veil, or just putting clips or other accessories in your hair, try them out before you get married.
This even applies to hair extension, or tiaras. If you are putting it on your head, do a practice run. Wear these accessories for a few hours. How does it feel? Are they poking onto you? Does your neck hurt from the weight? Or, are you quite comfortable? The answers to these questions will help you make sure that these accessories are right for your wedding.
MAKE YOUR WEDDING DAY HAIR RIGHT FOR YOU
The last tip is to keep your wedding day hair authentic to you.
Don’t feel pressure to go with a look, a stylist, or anything, from other people. Go with your gut. As mentioned before, it’s important that you feel like you. And that you are comfortable. This will allow you to have the best wedding day experience ever. So, be yourself, first and foremost.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
There’s a lot that can go into wedding day hair, and this was just some high-level thoughts and tips. The goal is to work with a hair stylist you can trust, form a plan early, and be authentic to yourself. Pay attention to the scheduling of your treatments, and try out all accessories ahead of time. Use logic when it comes to your wedding day hair style, and go with what feels right to you. Enjoy!
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