Am I really going to suggest that there are wedding risks you should actually take?
Yes! Yes, I am!
Look, I know that I write a lot about risks that you should never take. In fact, much of my blog is about preventing risks from even occurring. I promote careful planning. Consideration of what can go wrong. Mitigation plans in case risks turn into issues. If there are wedding risks you should actually take, I must have completely lost my mind.
Luckily, I haven’t.
Yes, there are some wedding risks you should actually take. Risks that have low stakes. Risks that can help you save lots of money. Even risks that you’re not even thinking about right now. The thing is, we all have different priorities when it comes to our weddings. And, with those varied priorities means that in some cases, we won’t mind the consequences if the reward can be big. Yeah, those are the risks I’m talking about.
16 Wedding Risks You Should Actually Take
This post is going to share with you sixteen wedding risks you should actually take. Remember, this advice is personal. If something is just too risky for you, don’t risk it. Focus on what your priorities are for your wedding, and take risks outside of those priorities. It’s okay to pick and choose what works for you.
Let’s get into it!
1. HIRING AN INEXPERIENCED VENDOR FOR SOMETHING THAT ISN’T A TOP PRIORITY
First things first, let’s talk about vendors who are just starting out.
Now, if you have photography on your list of high priorities, don’t hire an inexperienced photographer. But, maybe you don’t care that much about wedding cake. Or videography. Or photobooths. In those cases, hire someone who’s new. The person who is looking to prove themselves. You may just get a killer deal and excellent service out of it.
2. THE MUSIC YOU PLAY IN THE BACKGROUND
Have you ever been to a wedding where there is music played at cocktail hour? If so, do you even remember the songs? I’d guess that the answer is no.
If you and your partner love a certain type of music, and aren’t sure if it can fit into your wedding, consider playing it as background noise. For example, music before the ceremony. Music during cocktail hour. Music during dinner, or between the sets for the band. Have fun with it and show your personality during those “lull” times when people aren’t paying that much attention anyway.
3. WHO YOU CHOOSE TO BE IN YOUR WEDDING PARTY
Oh, am I going there? Yes, I am.
I know that I usually recommend that you choose wisely and carefully before you decide on your wedding party. And, I stand by that. However, if you have some trusted members of your wedding party and are trying to round up to a certain number, it’s okay to add a few people you’re unsure about. As long as your bases are covered with “responsible” members who can lead everyone else, it should be okay.
And, if it’s not, check out this post on firing a bridesmaid. Just kidding! Kind of.
4. YOUR WEDDING REGISTRY
Creating a wedding registry can be so much fun! It’s all about deciding what will serve you best in your married life.
The key with it is to not spend too much time dwelling on what should be on it. As long as you choose to register at a location with a lenient return policy, you’ll be fine. Don’t sweat on registering for the purple dishtowels or the blue ones. If you hate the look of one, activate that return policy. It’ll be okay.
When in doubt, register for experience on a site like Zola. It’s so awesome and never fails.
5. THE LOOK OF YOUR INVITATIONS (EVEN GOING THE DIY ROUTE)
Some people put a lot of thought and care into their wedding invitations.
And look, if this is you, no judgement. You do you.
However, I’d like to point out a few things. First, your guests aren’t too concerned with what your invites look like. As long as they answer the major questions about your wedding (where, when, etc.), they should be fine. And, wedding invites can be pricey. The juice may not be worth the squeeze, so to speak.
So, if you want to go basic with your invitations, or even, gasp, make your own, it’s totally a wedding risk you should actually take. Programs like Canva make it easy, too. Go for it.
6. WHAT YOU DO ON YOUR BACHELORETTE OR BACHELOR PARTY
Friends, there is no reason why you need to have the “typical” bachelorette or bachelor party.
Now, typical may mean something different for everyone. Typical may mean a crazy weekend in Nashville. Or, it may mean dinner downtown with some friends. Every group is different with these things. However, if you want to “take a risk” and do something a little unusual, do it. It’s your party and you can do what you want to.
For some ideas on low key bachelorette parties, this is the post for you.
7. THE INFORMATION YOU PUT ON YOUR WEDDING WEBSITE
This wedding risk comes with a disclaimer.
Your wedding website does need to have some important bits of information on it. For example, your wedding location. The date. The time. Maybe recommendations on where to stay, and links to your registry.
Beyond that, have fun with it! Answer frequently asked questions (like in this post!). Take risks. Share photos. Tell your story. Introduce your bridal party. Do whatever you want with the site that makes sense to you.
8. YOUR WEDDING DÉCOR AND STYLE
Weddings do not all have to look alike. Your wedding can have the décor and style that is most meaningful to you and your partner.
For example, don’t feel pressure to have a pastel theme with your springtime wedding. Don’t feel guilty if your December wedding hides all references to the holidays. If you want to have a “chess” theme and the décor reflects it, do it. If your favorite color is brown, and it brings out your partner’s eyes, feel free to go with that. Take risks with your wedding décor and style, if you want to. I promise it will only make your wedding that much more memorable.
9. THE STYLE OF YOUR WEDDING RINGS
Tiffany princess cut diamond, anyone? Everyone? Well, for those who like to mix things up, no.
One of the wedding risks you should actually take is the style of your ring. Of course, if you have a more basic style, that’s fine. My own ring is pretty basic. However, not everyone is me. Or my style. So, if you want to go bold, colorful, and skip the diamond altogether, do it! It’s your finger. Wear what makes you happy.
10. THE FLOW OF YOUR CEREMONY
You do not, I repeat, you do not, have to have a ceremony that matches every other wedding ceremony you’ve ever been to.
I mean, if you’re getting married in a religious ceremony, and your officiant has to do things a certain way, then things are what they are. However, many people do not have religious ceremonies. And, they can mix things up. Have readings. Bring in music. Some ceremonies can even have performers. Look, it’s your ceremony and the point is that you and your partner agree on it being the right way for your marriage to become official. So make it your own.
11. THE JEWELRY THAT YOU WEAR
Okay, this is totally a personal preference.
When it comes to the jewelry that you wear to your own wedding, it’s totally okay to take risks. I’m not saying that everyone will agree with that risk. However, we all have our own personal styles and if you want to rock something unconventional or unexpected on your own body on your own wedding day, you go for it. At the end of the day, that risk will not impact anyone else’s good time. And it may even look amazing!
12. YOUR FOOTWEAR
A couple of years ago I wrote a post about taking care of your feet for your wedding. Because of that post, I’m all about wearing whatever footwear works for you.
If you want to take a wedding risk and wear sneakers, you’ll be in good company. If you want to rock some serious stilettos, I’m sure you’ll look amazing. And, please send me pics. Want to wear flats? No problem. Looking for some sequins to sport? The more the merrier.
There are seriously no qualms when it comes to what you wear on your feet during your wedding. This is why footwear has to be on the list of wedding risks you should actually take.
13. ANY READINGS THAT TAKE PLACE DURING YOUR WEDDING
I once went to a wedding that had a reading from Winnie The Pooh. It was sweet, it was thoughtful, and it was totally relevant to the couple getting married.
As long as the reading isn’t too long, boring, confusing, or controversial, there is no reason why you can’t take risks when it comes to what is said at your wedding. This could be true for your ceremony, or even your reception. Why have speeches when someone can just do a reading? For some people, they may even prefer the latter.
14. GAMES OR OTHER ENTERTAINMENT AT YOUR WEDDING
There are so many ways to entertain guests when it comes to your wedding.
For example, there are table games. There are also fun things you can do during your reception or cocktail hour. The sky really is the limit when it comes to what you can provide for activities and entertainment. As long as you have the budget for it, and your venue is cool with your ideas, go for it. Again, your wedding, your risks, your way.
15. WHAT YOU CHOOSE AS YOUR WEDDING FAVORS
Wedding favors, wedding favors. Are you even necessary these days?
The truth is, no. But they are a nice thing to provide. This is why what you choose as your wedding favors is a perfect wedding item to take a risk on. Your guests won’t mind at all. If the favor isn’t their style, they just won’t take one. And, if it is, and unexpected, they may even take two.
Need ideas for wedding favors? Here are some ideas for edible favors, and non-edible ones, too.
16. WHERE YOU HEAD FOR YOUR HONEYMOON
Last one! One wedding risk you should actually take is where you go on your honeymoon.
Honestly, you should go wherever you want (that you can afford). If that means the beach, do that. The mountains? Go for it. Want to tour a super cold climate? Why not? It’s your honeymoon, and you and your partner should choose a destination that means something to you. No one else needs to be there, and their opinions don’t have to align with yours.
THOUGHTS ON WEDDING RISKS YOU SHOULD ACTUALLY TAKE
There are lots of wedding risks you should actually take out there. And while some risks are more important to avoid than others, it really is your wedding. If you want to take a risk on something not listed in this post, you do you. It’s your wedding, your risk. Happy wedding planning!
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